and the topic i m interested in is, why I talk much when m tensed and my Boy friend does the opposite in stress??.
well with a good amount of research , i have got the answer which i am going to share with you all..
A women talks outside her head, while a man talks inside his head.He uses his right brain to try to solve problems. and he stop using his left brain to listen or speak.Men can do one thing at a time, therefore he cannot solve problems and listen or talk simultaneously.
this silence is often distressing and frightening for women. A women, would tell her husband, son, "come on you have got to talk about it"! "you will feel better". she says this , because that works for her. but the man wants to be left alone to firegaze until he comes up with a solution to the problem. there fore women, need to understand that when a man is in his rock they need to leave him there and let him think. when he gets his solutions, he will be happy and talk again.
Hello There, quite research findings...tell me what did you refer for the matter...Man and woman two enigmatic creations by the Almighty God, Complementary to each other Hence the Genesis in the Holy Bible, Depicting Adam...the first man and the first Prophet in a figure of 1 lakh 24,000 messengers approximately sent to this earth( as said in Islam)...yeah strange, i congratulate you for you search so much...keep it going, Woman a strange creation by the Lord conceives, cares and loves, a local story in Assamese culture or for that matter i think..Indian Folklore...tells of a mother's heart...actually the story goes on like this, there was a man who was sent by his wife to bring his mother's heart to her, the man told the mother this thing and the mother happily as it is told offered her heart to him and after killing his mother, he took the heart and while was on the way, he tripped over some stone and the heart fell off his hand onto the ground, making it ask the man...son did you hurt yourself, such is the greatness of women...you all are lucky for GOD the almighty have made you the catalyst for a son or a daughter to attain the hallmark of the paradise God has promised to men and women of virtue...such is the status-quo...Gender differences in my opinion is an ironical debate in a land especially speaking of India, where even before Europe's throne was ascended by any Empress, our nation had Razia Sultan of Turkish origin ruling the Capital...not to speak of Chand Biwi who fought so valiantly against the forces of Akbar that she was granted a compensation victory and the list goes on and on... Rani Lakshmi Bai, Begum Hazrath Mahal...Because of the chromosomes,cellular formation, hormones and other Jargons found in Science( which i don't understand till now!)these differences in thinking...Dale Carnegie and other psychological works study human behavior but
ReplyDeleteyou you have a good topic at hand as well..try to work on it more in the pyramidal style and send it to dailies, you'll rock...be assured and God Bless